Tongue or tragus?

it's so hard to sleep after you have gotten your tragus pierced! however, on the flip side, it takes a long time to figure out how to talk after you've gotten your tongue pierced! your parents would probably be easier to be convinced with a tragus, maybe save the tongue piercing for your 18th birthday? or maybe your 17th, who knows, your parents appear to be pretty cool when it comes to piercings! I wish mine were ha. good luck with whatever you choose :)