My boyfriend shows me pics of ex girlfriends alot eithe ronline or in a photo album and speaks highly of them.?

I feel hurt and insecure bc he is very critical of me such as my make up my clothes the kind of phone i have and kinds of friends and family i have. He is very controlling and I asked him if he was like that with other gf but he said he didnt need to be bc they knew how to behave. He was with 2 other girls for 5 yrs both from europe. One he said he ended bc he didnt want to move to turkey with her and the other bc she was bad with money.im 24 he is 38. its odd bc he shows me exes and when i probe him he gets mad. i also pay for everything when we go out to dinner and even get him groceries bc he is out of work and i work but im only a catholic school teacher. i finally stood up to him and he followed me to the subway and i text him i cant pay anymore and want to go dutch and told him he is destroying my dignity and independence and love for him its only been 2 months but very intense. I told him he will lose me unless he accepts me and we either go dutch or not go out at all until he works. His reply to this text was simply I love you. What advice can u offer me and what can u make of this guy?